Went to the actuarial club meeting today to hear actuaries from Principal Financial Group speak about their careers.
It was very informative
I could give it a shot
After the presentation I went up to talk to one of the presenters. For a brief moment I was struck by how boring and uninteresting the job seemed (from my position of relative ignorance) compared to what I’ve been exposed to recently, which is art, music, comedy, and beguiling and delightful creativity. The things of dreams.
But could this be something I could do? Speaking in broad strokes.

i feel bad for calling the life’s work of these people boring
is it interesting? is it challenging (yes)? the big problems: defined benefits is shrinking as fewer people spend their lives working at a single company. what is the next generation of actuaries going to build for future retirees? is this really subjectively a fascinating problem? am i feeling too entitled to a “cool” career?

19:05 /// 16 Apr 2014

02:51 /// 10 Apr 2014

movieposteroftheday:

1958 Russian poster for A KID FOR TWO FARTHINGS (Carol Reed, UK, 1955)
Artist: unknown
Poster source: Kinoart.net
“In the busy wholesale-retail world of London’s East End everyone, it seems, has unattainable dreams. Then a small boy - Joe - buys a unicorn, in fact a sickly little goat, with just one twisted horn in the middle of its forehead. This, he has been led to believe by a local tailor, Kandinsky, will bring everyone good fortune.” –Wikipedia

movieposteroftheday:

1958 Russian poster for A KID FOR TWO FARTHINGS (Carol Reed, UK, 1955)

Artist: unknown

Poster source: Kinoart.net

“In the busy wholesale-retail world of London’s East End everyone, it seems, has unattainable dreams. Then a small boy - Joe - buys a unicorn, in fact a sickly little goat, with just one twisted horn in the middle of its forehead. This, he has been led to believe by a local tailor, Kandinsky, will bring everyone good fortune.” –Wikipedia

20:23 /// 7 Apr 2014

» The Surprisingly Large Cost of Telling Small Lies

"Peter maintains that telling lies is the No. 1 reason entrepreneurs fail. Not because telling lies makes you a bad person but because the act of lying plucks you from the present, preventing you from facing what is really going on in your world. Every time you overreport a metric, underreport a cost, are less than honest with a client or a member of your team, you create a false reality and you start living in it."

youmightfindyourself:

By: Rebekah Campbell
NY Times, March 11th, 2014

Recently, I caught up with one of our angel investors for lunch: Peter is a brilliant entrepreneur from England who has lived all over the world. He has built several businesses and now lives a dream life with a house on a harbor, a happy family and a broad smile.

As our conversation drifted from an update of my company to a deep discussion about life itself, I asked him what he thought was the secret to success. I expected the standard “never give up” or some other T-shirt slogan, but what he said took me by surprise. “The secret to success in business and in life is to never, ever, ever tell a lie,” he said.

That stumped me. I know that lying is bad and telling the truth is good — we learn that as children. But the secret to success? I looked at Peter, confused and skeptical. He nodded and assured me, “Complete honesty is the access to ultimate power.”

As we spoke, I started thinking about the little lies I tell every day — often without thinking about it, but not always. I have been guilty of exaggerating a metric here or there or omitting facts for my own advantage. Each time, there is a little voice inside my head that tells me it is the wrong thing to do. I have wondered whether everyone does this or whether it is just me. Could this be what has been holding me back?

I did some research and it seems most of us lie quite a bit. A study by the University of Massachusetts found that 60 percent of adults could not have a 10-minute conversation without lying at least once. The same study found that 40 percent of people lie on their résumés and a whopping 90 percent of those looking for a date online lie on their profiles. Teenage girls lie more than any other group, which is attributed to peer pressure and expectation. The study did not investigate the number of lies told by entrepreneurs looking for investment capital, but I fear we would top the chart.

Most people lie about little things to make them look good. A study by a film rental company found that 30 percent of respondents lied about having seen “The Godfather.” It’s a classic film, we assume everyone has seen it, and we lie that we have too, because we want to fit in. People lie to stave off the consequences of making a mistake, to buy more time or to spare someone’s feelings. Their hearts may be in the right place, but they are still telling lies.

Peter has invested in hundreds of businesses. Every time he sees a pitch, he waits until the end of the presentation before asking the entrepreneurs to go back through the deck and point out every lie they have just told. There are always plenty. As soon as the entrepreneurs open up with the truth, they can start managing what to do next.

Peter maintains that telling lies is the No. 1 reason entrepreneurs fail. Not because telling lies makes you a bad person but because the act of lying plucks you from the present, preventing you from facing what is really going on in your world. Every time you overreport a metric, underreport a cost, are less than honest with a client or a member of your team, you create a false reality and you start living in it.

You know the right path to take and choose another, and in so doing you lose control of the situation. Now, rather than tackling the problem head on, you have to manage the fallout from the lie. I know people who seem to have spent their entire careers inflating the truth and then fighting to meet the expectations they have set.

Like me, Peter reads Buddhist philosophy and applies it to business. One of its lessons is to remain in the present, a more peaceful, creative and productive place from which to operate. Every time I tell a lie, I know that I am no longer present. I feel a tightening in my chest and sweat on my palms — just a small amount because I only tell little lies. But lies they are. They place me in a false future, increase my level of stress and prevent me from being as creative as I can be when I’m fully present. Stress saps our energy and causes nasty consequences for our bodies. We know that lying creates stress; polygraph tests measuring blood pressure, perspiration, pulse and skin conductivity can pinpoint a lie with tremendous accuracy.

I recently discovered firsthand the corrosive effect of lying. For several years, I have worked as a director of a nonprofit organization. We do great work in the community but as a team we have always floundered. A few weeks ago, I caught the leader of our group lying — not whoppers, but a series of tales about why he was late, why someone could not make a meeting or why emails had not been read. I confronted him and he justified his lying, saying that it avoided unpleasant consequences.

It was obvious why our team wasn’t working: People didn’t trust each other. The result was a culture of obfuscation and backstabbing in which we achieved less than we were capable of achieving. Staff members and volunteers became disheartened and eventually left. The leader’s constant lies, no matter how insignificant they seemed to him, had caused a breakdown of integrity and trust in the organization, and without integrity and trust nothing worked.

Since my meeting with Peter a few months ago, I’ve thought about truth and its relationship to creativity, peace, and ultimately success. I decided to test his ideas by trying to be 100 percent honest and transparent all of the time, even when I did not have to be. It was harder and more frightening than I expected. It is embarrassing to admit that I caught myself telling many more lies than I realized, most to protect myself. Telling the truth can be a tough option, and it made me feel much more vulnerable.

But the results have been striking. In an investor pitch six months ago, when I ran through our financial model and budget, I was open about where money had been spent poorly because of mistakes I had made — even though there was no way the investor could have found this out on his own. I was nervous, but the majority of investors I pitch say no anyway. So I decided to try an experiment: the total truth. At the end of our conversation, he said, “I really appreciate how transparent you’ve been with me, Rebekah. Give me a day to think about it.” The next day he called back and invested. I was stunned!

I’ve stuck with this philosophy ever since. It’s transformed my sense of peace and coincided with our company’s most productive period ever. Coincidence?

If you are reading this post and thinking, “This doesn’t apply to me — I never lie,” you are probably lying to yourself. If you try being honest and transparent about everything, I’m confident that you will find it both difficult and rewarding — and that it will make a measurable difference in your business.

21:01 /// 2 Apr 2014

feeling oddly lonely these days, like im not fit or ready yet to have friends. And on a beautiful day like this all i want to do is lie on the grass with a buddy. the sunshine and passing breezes barely suffice as company
If instead of couples and triples and quadruples littered across the lawns I saw only people sitting by themselves would I still feel so pathetic for being like them, which is to say unaccompanied

feeling oddly lonely these days, like im not fit or ready yet to have friends. And on a beautiful day like this all i want to do is lie on the grass with a buddy. the sunshine and passing breezes barely suffice as company

If instead of couples and triples and quadruples littered across the lawns I saw only people sitting by themselves would I still feel so pathetic for being like them, which is to say unaccompanied

15:53 /// 1 Apr 2014

Magritte Collection by Opening Ceremony

Magritte Collection by Opening Ceremony

15:28 /// 21 Mar 2014

Only later, when I began to probe, did I learn that below the surface transmissions — the front-of-mind stuff which is what I’d originally been picking up — language faded away, and was replaced by universally intelligible thought-forms which far transcended words … but that was after I heard, beneath the polyglot frenzy in my head, those other precious signals, utterly different from everything else, most of them faint and distant, like far-off drums whose insistent pulsing eventually broke through the fish-market cacophany of my voices … those secret, nocturnal calls, like calling out to like … the unconscious beacons of the children of midnight, signalling nothing more than their existence, transmitting simply: “I.” From far to the North, “I.” And the South East West: “I.” “I.” And “I.”

15:35 /// 17 Mar 2014

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atelier-sento:

The Spera Gathering

This week, Mathilde Kitteh, Valentin Seiche & Sourya Sihachakr are hosted at the Atelier Sentô to work together on the new Spera book : Ascension of the Starless, written by Josh Tierney.

It’s fascinating to witness a story being illustrated in such various styles without loosing its coherence.

18:48 /// 6 Mar 2014

01:45 /// 5 Mar 2014

atelier-sento:

Mizuka’s cat, walk animation - The Coral CaveThe Coral Cave is a point & click adventure game set in Okinawa.More infos on our Indie DB page.
This lady cat is one of the main characters of the game.Isn’t she cute?

atelier-sento:

Mizuka’s cat, walk animation - The Coral Cave
The Coral Cave is a point & click adventure game set in Okinawa.
More infos on our Indie DB page.

This lady cat is one of the main characters of the game.
Isn’t she cute?

15:35 /// 2 Mar 2014

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15:16 /// 2 Mar 2014

what a beautiful day!! deserving the foulest expletives of praise! yes we shall have a cup of wine. because we can!

11:42 /// 23 Feb 2014